I’ve been taking better care of myself than ever lately — no alcohol, no nicotine, clean eating, regular workouts, solid sleep. I never thought chronic stress and high blood pressure would show up in my life—until they did, in a dentist chair of all places.
That day, I had rushed straight from the jobsite, stopped home quick to brush and floss, and hit some road construction that made me a few minutes late. By the time I got in the chair, I was already a little flustered. I had just finished getting my wisdom teeth pulled a couple weeks prior and a few fillings the week before, so I wasn’t exactly thrilled about more numbing or drilling.
The hygienist took my blood pressure: 140 over 101.
She told me it was slightly high — just two points above the cutoff. We waited a few minutes and checked again. Same result.
That caught me off guard. I’ve never had high blood pressure. Even when I’m active or pushing hard, it usually reads fine. So why now?
I took a deep breath and tried to relax — like really relax. I focused on slowing everything down.
We checked again: 111 over 78.
That moment stuck with me. I hadn’t done anything different — except calm down. It made me realize how quickly stress can affect your body, even when you think you’re doing everything right.
What Is High Blood Pressure, Really?
Blood pressure is the force of blood pushing against your artery walls as your heart pumps. It’s measured with two numbers:
- The top number (systolic): pressure when your heart beats
- The bottom number (diastolic): pressure when your heart rests between beats
A normal reading is around 120 over 80. If it’s higher than that, you’re either in the “elevated” zone or officially in hypertension territory:
- 120s over <80: Elevated
- 130s over 80s: Stage 1 hypertension
- 140+/90+: Stage 2 hypertension
The real problem is when your blood pressure stays high over time. That’s when it begins to damage your heart, blood vessels, kidneys, and even your brain — often without obvious symptoms.
What most people don’t realize is that blood pressure can spike based on emotional state alone. You can be doing everything else right — eating clean, exercising, sleeping well — and still experience blood pressure spikes if your nervous system is stuck in stress mode.
What Really Causes High Blood Pressure (Hint: It’s Not Just Salt)
Most people think high blood pressure is just about diet, salt, or genetics. But in reality, chronic stress is one of the biggest drivers—and it affects far more people than we realize.
According to the American Psychological Association:
- 63% of Americans say money is a major source of stress
- 77% of workers experience work-related stress monthly
- Nearly half of adults aren’t getting enough sleep—and it’s making their stress worse
- 57% report real physical or emotional side effects from ongoing stress
This matters, because your emotional state can raise blood pressure on its own. You could be eating clean, exercising, and sleeping well—but if your nervous system is stuck in stress mode, your blood vessels are still tightening, your heart is working harder, and your pressure stays elevated.
Two Main Types of High Blood Pressure
Primary (Essential) Hypertension:
This is the most common type. It develops gradually over time and is usually caused by a mix of lifestyle and internal factors like:
- Chronic stress
- Poor diet (high sodium, low potassium)
- Lack of physical activity
- Poor sleep
- Hormonal imbalance
- Insulin resistance or excess weight
In most cases, it’s a combination of emotional and physical stressors that silently push the numbers up.
Secondary Hypertension:
This one is more direct. It’s caused by specific conditions or medications, such as:
- Kidney disease
- Thyroid disorders
- Adrenal tumors
- Hormonal contraceptives or certain prescription drugs
How Chronic Stress Wrecks More Than Just Your Blood Pressure
According to the American Institute of Stress, stress is a factor in 75–90% of all doctor’s visits. It’s been linked to:
- High blood pressure
- Heart disease
- Autoimmune conditions
- Gut issues
- Hormonal imbalance
- Anxiety and depression
- Poor sleep
- Even some cancers
And it’s sneaky — it builds over time until your body starts breaking down. That’s why managing stress isn’t just about feeling calm — it’s about protecting your long-term health.
You can’t out-supplement a nervous system stuck in survival mode.
Calm, safety, and rhythm are just as important as any diet or detox.
Holistic Approaches That Actually Help
Here’s what I’ve found actually works — not just for a moment of calm, but for helping the body retrain itself to handle stress better over time:
Mindfulness & Breathwork
Start with the breath — it’s the remote control for your nervous system.
If you want to shift from stress to safety, your breath is the fastest way to do it.
- Box breathing: Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4 seconds, exhale for 4 seconds, and hold again for 4 seconds — then repeat the cycle.
- 4-7-8 breathing: Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 7 seconds, and exhale slowly for 8 seconds — repeat for a few rounds.
I try to include this in my daily routine — especially when I feel overstimulated.
Movement
Stress lives in the body — and movement is how we let it out.
You don’t need to crush a workout to feel better. You just need to move.
Nutrition
Food is a huge part of stress management. Magnesium-rich foods, clean protein, healthy fats, and hydration matter. Most people rely on a cheap multivitamin and think that’s enough — but most don’t work. I explain why in this post: Why Most Multivitamins Don’t Work (And What to Take Instead)
Hormonal Balance
Stress can disrupt cortisol, testosterone, estrogen, and thyroid hormones. Balancing these naturally can make a huge difference in mood and energy. I covered this more deeply here: Balancing Hormones Naturally: What Really Works (For Men & Women)
Essential Oils
I use essential oils like lavender, frankincense, and bergamot to help relax in the evenings or before breathwork. If you’re curious which oils I use and how to use them safely: Essential Oils for Relaxation, Detox & Energy: My Top Picks
Final Thoughts
That day at the dentist reminded me how quickly the body reacts to stress — and how powerful it can be to simply slow down. In just a few minutes of calming my system, my blood pressure dropped nearly 30 points.
We can’t avoid stress completely — but we can learn to respond to it differently. And that makes all the difference.
Frequently Asked Questions About Blood Pressure
Are blood pressure and heart rate related?
Yes, but they are not the same. Blood pressure measures the force of blood against artery walls, while heart rate is the number of beats per minute. They often rise together during stress or exertion but are controlled by different systems.
Can high blood pressure make you tired or dizzy?
Yes — especially if it’s uncontrolled or if medication needs adjustment. Fatigue and dizziness can also come from low blood pressure or dehydration, so it’s important to track symptoms and talk to a healthcare provider.
Are blood pressure medications safe?
Many are safe and effective, but they can come with side effects like fatigue, dizziness, or nutrient depletion (e.g. magnesium or potassium loss). That’s why it’s smart to pair medication with lifestyle changes and regular check-ins.
Can natural remedies help with blood pressure?
Yes — lifestyle plays a big role. Reducing sodium, increasing potassium, getting regular movement, and supporting stress reduction (through tools like magnesium, hibiscus tea, or deep breathing) can all help regulate blood pressure naturally.
Are wrist blood pressure monitors accurate?
They can be — if used correctly. Wrist cuffs are more sensitive to positioning, so they should be held at heart level. Arm monitors are generally considered more reliable, especially for people managing hypertension.
Are blood pressure and blood sugar related?
Yes. Chronically high blood sugar can damage blood vessels, contributing to elevated blood pressure over time. Managing both together is crucial for long-term heart and metabolic health.
Sources
- American Psychological Association. “Stress in America 2023.” https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2023
- American Institute of Stress. “Stress Statistics.” https://www.stress.org/stress-research
- Gallup. “Americans Are Sleeping Less and Feeling More Stressed.” https://news.gallup.com
Health Disclaimer
This post is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Always consult your doctor, licensed healthcare provider, or a qualified holistic practitioner before making any changes to your wellness routine.
Devin Brundell is the founder of Brundell Co., a wellness platform dedicated to natural healing, lifestyle medicine, and intentional living. He holds a Bachelor’s degree in Business Management from Southwest Minnesota State University (SMSU) and a Bachelor’s in Holistic Health Sciences from Quantum University. Devin is also finalizing certification as a Board Certified Holistic Health Practitioner through the AADP. His mission is to empower others to reclaim health through practical tools, clean living, and purpose-driven change — one intentional choice at a time.